The behavior of an individual depends majorly on what they are made to believe when they are young and their influencers. A child or teenager is easily affected by the world around them, and often several doubts in their head get overlooked, leading to a future self that could be disastrous. In this tricky scenario, it becomes all the more important for parents to talk to their kids and give them a heads up of sorts on where things stand in life. On that note, take a look at 9 important conversations all parents need to have with their kids.

1. You're beautiful, just the way you are.

When kids hit puberty, self confidence hits a huge low. Although it's hard to explain to them that external beauty is only skin deep, it is necessary to always assure them that change is temporary, and like the ugly duckling, growing up is something that's unfathomable. Looks are not everything in life, fair skin does not mean superiority, a symmetrical face and body image does not mean someone is a good person. True beauty lies on the inside and there are so many ways to show it to the world.

3. The company you keep, influences you in ways you won't imagine.

Social relationships are complicated right from childhood and having just one 'best friend' isn't always healthy. Kids should learn to mingle with all their peers rather than being selective about who's cool and who's lame. As they grow older, friendships become even more complicated, but the sign of a good friend is when they respect you, enjoy your company and are unconditionally loyal.

5. Bullying is not okay.

In school, some kids get bullied while others are the bullies. Disrespect and looking down on others is something that parents should nip in the bud. Turning a blind eye on your child's cruel behaviour with his peers only reflects on you as a failed parent and guardian.

Bullying is not a part of growing up and it is not harmless fun. It is victimising someone else for something that they haven't done. We do not live in a Spartan age, where everything has to be perfect. We live in an age of diversity where school is meant to be a safe place for nurturing.