This is an article which appeared in one of the english
dailies ......this will give an insight to all that LUV never DIES..

A lady wrote...

My husband is an engineer by profession .I luv him for his steady
nature ,and i love the warm feeling when i lean against his broad
shoulders.
Three years of courtship and now ,two years into marriage,i would
have to admit that i am getting tired of it .
The reasons for me luving him before have now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I am a sentimental women and extremely sensitive when
it comes to a relationship and my feelings .
I yearn for the romantic moments ,like a little girl yearning for the candy my husband is the complete opposite,his lack of sensitivity ,and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about luv.
One day..I finally decided to tell him my decision,that i wanted a
divorce."WHY??" he asked ,shocked."I am tired ,there are no reasons
for everything in this world !" I answered.
He kept silent the whole night,seemed to be in deep thought with a
lighted cigarette all time.
My dissappointment only increased...here was a man who cant even express his predicament... what else can i hope from him ? finally he asked me "What can i do to change ur mind?"
somebody said it right "its hard to change a person's personality",and i guess i started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes i slowly answered....here is the question if u can answer and convince my heart i will change my mind....
-lets say ,I want a flower located on the face of a mountain and we
both are sure that picking the flower will cause ur death...
will u do it for me ?
He said :i will give u ur answer tomorrow .....my hopes just sank
listening to his response .
I woke up the next morning to find him gone ,and saw a scratch of
paper with his scratchy handwriting ,underneath a milk glass,on the
dining table near the front door.

The note said :my dear ,i would not pick that flower for u ,but please
allow me to explain the reasons further.. the first line was already
breaking my heart .
I continued reading ..."when u use the computer ,u always mess up the software programs and u cry infront of the screen.
I have to save my fingers so that i can help u to
restore those programs and wipe off ur tears .
U always leave the house keys behind ,so i have to save my legs to
rush home to open the door for u .
U luv travelling but always lose ur way in a new city i have to Save my eyes to show u the way.
You always have the cramps whenever ur "good friend " approaches every month, i have to save my hands so that i can calm the cramps in ur
tummy .
U like to stay indoors and i will be worried that u will be infected
by infantile autism.
I have to save my mouth to tell u jokes and stories to cure ur boredom.
You always stare at the computer and that will do no good to ur eyes.
I have to save my eyes so that when u grow old i can help u clip
ur nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs .
So i can also hold ur hand while strolling down the beach ,as you
enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand ....and tell u the color
of flowers,just like the color of glow on ur face .
So my dear unless i am sure that there is someone who loves u more
than i do , i could not pick that floweryet and die.

Tears dropped from my eyes and blurred the ink of his writing .....now that u have finished reading if ur satisfied ...please open the front door for i am standing outside like everyday..
with your favorite bread and fresh milk .

Now i am very sure that no one will ever luv me as much as he does
and i have decided to leave the flower alone.

Thats life and luv ...when one is surrounded by luv the feeling of
excitement fades away,and one tends to ignore the true luv that lies
in between the peace and dullness.
Luv shows up in all forms ,even very small and cheeky forms.
It has never been a model .It cud be the dullest and boring forms .flowers
and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the
relationship...under all this ,the pillar of true luv stands .
and thats reason enough to live ........