Vatsal
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« on: February 09, 2006, 04:20:14 AM » |
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Dear friends of the indianchoice, its the valentine's month and its a big day for all the teens and the youth both male and female.But everyone talks about the people who are in love and how good the love they share is and blah blah blah.........Nobody cares about the poor single guys, who are dateless this V'day, and i thought it would be good to talk about that.Everyone, who has a girlfriend always gives advice on how to get a date, which ofcourse is 99% of the time too impractical to do in the day to day life. Im giving you all the list of things U HAV TO AVOID when you meet the person u like.
Here are some BAD things to avoid doing:
1) Talking too fast or too much. This communicates that you're nervous and sketchy (unless you're telling a really interesting story, or you have integrated fast talking into your personality in an interesting way, of course).
2) Nervous gestures, laughs, ticks, etc. I've met many guys who laugh nervously after just about everything they say. This is the DEATH of attraction. It instantly communicates insecurity.
3) Breaking eye contact. At first, you need to maintain eye contact until SHE breaks it. This establishes at an unconscious level that you're not afraid.
If u can, I also recommend that you study the body language and composure of some of the world's most famous "ladies' men".
Watch "Ocean's 11", and pay attention to how Brad Pitt and George Clooney act in that movie. They are great models of attractive, composed body language.
Check out "Gone With The Wind", and watch how Rhett handles his lady love Scarlet. Awesome. The more you pay attention, the more you'll learn and improve.
And finally, dont you worry even if all these dont win u a date.As some wise men said once that LOVE TAKES TIME, it all depends on the effort u put into it, that counts. BE BRAVE AND CONFIDENT. HAPPY VALENTINE' S DAY AND HAPPY DATING!!!!
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